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How to prepare for NEET & JEE in 7 days!

Lets discuss 7 day intensive method for preparation for NEET & JEE.

Fact & Story - Know the difference for becoming what you wanna .

Fact & Story - Know the difference for becoming what you wanna .

How to manage education for a child at class 11th & 12th level !

Parenting now a days has lots of problems , one of these regular problem is education of child . Till class X , education is mainly solo responsibility of school & attention by Parents . School has its own role for the development of behaviour & intellectual level till class X . But as a student moves in class XI , most of the schools face difficulty to prepare students for JEE & NEET exams etc. along with school curriculum . It does not means that they are not capable , they are fully capable but the curriculum & calendar of school some times makes it difficult to prepare a student for JEE & NEET. Most of the parents then opt for coaching institutes. A student generally face three front for education at class XI & XII Level - (a) School (b) Tuition (c) Coaching Institute A student faces three types of teaching style , three types of syllabus sequence & three types of evaluation. This can be easy to say , but really a difficult thing for a student...

Govt Job , What to do?

Govt. Job was a dream for many for many years. Present scenario of recession also pushes many for government jobs. But the big question in from of Today youth is how to get government job ? It is not a difficult one since most of the jobs are exams based & are conducted by SSC , UPSC , Banks , Govt. Institutes etc. You must be first of all clear in your goals that you want to do a govt. job . The main limitation is that they are transferable . If you want a job with responsibility , you are ready to explore india then you are fit for govt. job . Good govt job requires minimum 12th as a qualification . As the minimum qualification bar increases status of job increases. Start Preparing English , Hindi , Reasoning  , General Maths & GK at 10th level. Read all the NCERT books many time from Class 6th to 10th , Social studies book Specially . Try to learn short tricks to solve reasoning questions , Lots of website offer such short tricks. thus preparation is enough for go...

Parenting - A serious issue !!

Child is the reflection of his parents .It is the genetic material which transfer parent's trait to their child . This is a scientific definition. But now a days we see children are very much different from their parents. Parents face lots of anxiety now a days .... due to behaviour of their children . They often used to say that (a) child is too moody (b) child is not doing well in studies (c) child is hyper in his behaviour ..... In other words we can say parents feel that child is not up to their expectations. Child in itself is a complete human . He absorb all the things which he observe around him. What ever parents serve , knowingly or unknowingly , he or she is always influenced by those behaviour . Relation between parents affect the relation of child with society . Arguments among parents affect  psychology of children . He become less creative , less responsible and  more stubborn.  . One case to share here - A couple along with their 15 year kid...

Why to study ?

Problem discussed with a student-3 Question -Sir, I know I am not studying , what to do? Reply-This situation is again one of the common problem of large number of students. Dear student always remember - "Motivation is the fuel of hard work." You have courage to do hard work, ample time .... But you may not have that single reason , why to do studies? You may have lots of excuses , but you need that one particular motivated reason ...why not to study ? Driving force for the work may be any of followings - 1. Hunger of success. 2. Dream of bright future  3. Demand of time   4. Gratitude towards your parents. 5.To impress someone . Dear students, select the one reason which suits you most , which does not allow you to sleep . And work for that .

It feels awesome ...Gateway international school , Sonipat , Delhi - NCR

Life many times give such surprises which we can never expect . Few days back , I have no idea ...that I am going to gateway international school , as chief guest. Principle harinder Chakhaiyar , give a warm welcome . His hospitality was awesome . The staff welcome me with cheerfull smiles . Students are very keen to listen orators .

Government job or private sector job?

It is the time when students are seeking my advice regarding the career selection . Previously I use to suggest them career like IAS ....IPS other govt career etc. but now u am reconsidering my counselling . Is it good to be an IAS like khemka and Durga shakti  nagpal , suffering from their job side as well as from criminal side too. Their own department is not with them .one is against land mafia and suffered lots of transfers , other is facing suspensions. There are so many examples if non IAS who are also facing inquires ,punishments and penalties . What is the benefit if such job? Which give you suffering . Job is for growth and development . But it is highly affected by other people . Do instead of putting my self in a debate for govt or private job , I would like to suggest students to be self dependent , self employed . Empower your self through education so that you can support your self your family and your dreams.

Positive attitude

Guys , understand to keep your memories in the safe and secrete area if your mind that is unconscious mind. It is most reliable and most powerful part of our mind....have instant recall of memory ..take instant and effective decisions .... Make your personality effective ... How to shift memories in unconscious part? Two ways - 1. By meditation 2. By constant recalling till 21 days. Make list of some encouraging words... Revise ... Recall them for two times a days for 21 days.  Memory will boost up.... Personality will boost up...life will be boost up .

Confusions ???.??

Not understanding what is going on ...what too do , simply seeing certain things happening in front of you ....don't get afraid this is the time of your action ....take a long breath ....stretch your shoulders ...straight your neck....now move confidently. In our life we face such deadlocks so many time , either so many option or none . In those moments we feel lost , defeated . But in reality this is the time to show courage , to cross all the hurdles . Simply have faith , faith in your almighty , faith in your power , faith in your inner self.in this world only those things are present which a super mammal I.e. human can handle . If you can,t handle a thing , remember , that will not exist on this earth , this is the selection of nature. Nature is supreme, it gave power to each human , but only those succeed who has vision . vision is given only to those who has courage , has faith and confidence in himself.

Words are tool not weapon....

Guys , use your words as tools not as a weapon of destruction. In our daily life we encounter large number of such people , who reacts very rapidly and harshly towards and situation. As you speak some thing they instantly respond and give you a feeling of rejection and humiliation , this makes you speechless. Some time you also respond in same manner. Parents respond rudely to their child .......!!!you don't know you are a kid !!!! Child responded to their parents .......!!!you don't know time has changed!!! Teacher respond students.... Students respond to teacher .... The response chain continue. So we must try to change our attitude towards response . Response is a tool of communication. If you use it well you will have certain good friends Any work can flourish if it benefits our society... you may have worst enemies. Speak with words of love ... Always remember wanna friends ....talk words of friendship ... You should not be a pain dealer but a pain killer. Nev...

Guidance vs Pressurising a child..

I met with one of my friend yesterday. His kid in class 11th . He very confidently and with proud told to me that he never pressurise his kid for what to do or not to do in studies. He set his kid free to do any experiment with studies. Academically that kid is getting down day by day. I know that child personally , I know that the child is fully competent , but little bits low learner. Not coming up with studies continuously bringing down her confidence in studies. She was in a state of trauma , but her parents are constantly saying that we never pressurise them !!!! Guys this is not a right approach which the parents of above mentioned child are following , this is simply putting all the burden on child , and to get rid off from all the responsibilities. Instead they should guide their child , they should understand their child , they should help their child. In the life many times we all require some sort of direction , once we get that miracles are there. For today's paren...