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Consistency is the Key of Success#

Success is the resultant of collective efforts made by any person daily . If you wanna success , be regular & Consistent in your work .

Relation of 21st Century Parents & Child.

In today's world it is a very big problem " How to maintain good relations between parents & child" A child always complains about his/her freedom , desires etc. Parents have their different issues with kids.  Following video will be help full in dealing with such problems - 

Fact & Story - Know the difference for becoming what you wanna .

You can get reverse , but Things can never be reversed

Friends many time we take one step forward and many step backward , but in this life "THINGS NEVER REVERSED ". "Once your words outside your mouth , they are not yours." "Once you saw someone , you can't ignore ." "Once you pass one second of your life you can never get that back ." ........ In our life events are beyond our control , but how to behave in those situation is our attitude . It can " built you or Break you ". ..... If destiny put you in any situation , no problem , welcome it with huge smile and tackle it with your attitude. You can earn money but you can never earn your life . It is precious , spend it with a attitude and gratitude .

Reward based parenting .

Today I encounter a parent , highly living towards his kid , ready to give all the things which he can purchase by money . Father has good business , so loving . He told to his boy , enjoy the life ....do whatever you want . Studies are at the 3rd - 4th priorities for him .  What do you think , is this a good kind of parenting ? ... In my views , this over possessive nature of parenting will make his kid handicapped for his entire life in terms of development .  A parent should listen Their child , simultaneously child should be encouraged for earning the luxuries.  A child can be prompted for hard work by offering any suitable reward , may be in terms of A trip , a gift etc.  I recommend to give them lots of love , your time but , not excess of money . Support them but never make them handicap for life.

Guidance vs Pressurising a child..

I met with one of my friend yesterday. His kid in class 11th . He very confidently and with proud told to me that he never pressurise his kid for what to do or not to do in studies. He set his kid free to do any experiment with studies. Academically that kid is getting down day by day. I know that child personally , I know that the child is fully competent , but little bits low learner. Not coming up with studies continuously bringing down her confidence in studies. She was in a state of trauma , but her parents are constantly saying that we never pressurise them !!!! Guys this is not a right approach which the parents of above mentioned child are following , this is simply putting all the burden on child , and to get rid off from all the responsibilities. Instead they should guide their child , they should understand their child , they should help their child. In the life many times we all require some sort of direction , once we get that miracles are there. For today's paren...